Following up on my three-part post on getting stuck on the island of Lembongan in Bali, Indonesia, I figured I would share my insights on how to get stuck somewhere, even if you're not planning on it. Here's how!
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There are worse places in the world to be stuck... |
Disclaimer: This type of traveling isn't for everybody. If you're the type of person that needs to have a more structured plan, this type of traveling might not be for you, but that's okay! Different strokes for different folks. However, this guide could also help you should a situation arise where your plans go wrong and you're forced to improvise.
Arrive With No Fixed Plan
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Sunsets like this are an addiction |
Otherwise, you risk arriving on a small island, or charming mountain resort only to realize you don't like it. By this point, though, you've already committed yourself to a week-long stay that you can't get out of. Booking one night in a hotel or simply showing up and looking for accommodation keeps you from making a commitment you can't get out of.
Be Prepared To Spend A Little Time Tweaking Your Stay
Planning in advance takes time. You do research on your destination, you spend days looking for flights/tickets, and you take hours skimming through hotel reviews looking for that perfect spot to stay at. When you're going to get stuck, you might have to do some planning, but in this case, it's a little different.
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An island like this could inadvertently become your new home |
In short: If you don't like where you're at: leave at your earliest convenience. There's no point in sticking around some place you don't like, wasting your time and money. If you do have a good feeling, either extend your hotel for another night (or more) or look for another place that better suits your fancy.
Keeping Extra Cash On You Could Be Beneficial
We in the West and the developed world have become accustomed to paying for our goods and services with plastic. Cards are so widely accepted (albeit not as much as you'd expect in Belgium...more on that in another travel pro-tip post) that we often overlook the fact that there are many places in the world where cash is the only way to pay your way.
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Bring enough moula to make it rain. |
Find out why writing on your money is a bad idea. Click here to see my travel pro-tip.
Forget About Getting Stressed About Tomorrow
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You should only be thinking about whether or not you want another coffee after breakfast (the answer is yes). |
The trick to fully enjoying yourself is to switch gears in your mindset. This goes down to living in the moment and taking things for how they are right there and then. This might be knocking on the door of some Buddhist principles, but there's some truth in it. When it boils down, there's nothing to worry about and it's all but normal that time slows down and the majority of your urges tell you to ignore that voice in your head telling you to make a plan. Listen to your heart and your gut and tell that stress to cram it with walnuts.
Accept That Plans Can Change, And That's Alright
Last but not least, the crux to getting stuck is accepting that you can just as easily get unstuck. Plans can and do change and it's important to accept that you might wind up moving just as quickly as you arrived. Maybe you heard about another place you'd like to check out. Maybe you met some new people and want to continue your journey with them. Maybe you just feel like it's time to go and don't want to wait another day to find out if that's the right decision or not. In any case, if you're planning to get stuck, then changing your plans shouldn't pose much of burden to you.
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Sometimes the time is right to just hop into that boat |
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